ORLANDO, FL, Feb. 21
/MidnightOutpost.com/ "Where can I go? Now this is a place to go when there is no other place to go at midnight.”– Continue To Learn. My two most
important people to me, my daughter and my best
friend
, both are probably going to do something that I believe is very self
destructive to themselves. I believe that I have done all that I can
to prevent them from doing this. I gave an answer to this question at
yahoo answers:
My A: (you may find it by
scrolling at the above question at yahoo answers, I've included it
here so you don't have to look there to find it)
Sounds
like you need to be there for her in the aftermath of
this. (
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is a good answer as well. I did
that with my best friend...) (see
http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea…
)
When someone INSIST upon their own self destruction, they
often achieve that.
I've been stalked by several women that
don't get it. I've told them direct. "There is no point in you
believing there is more to this than me being a friend, AT THE VERY
BEST." They still don't get it and continue to stalk! I don't go
to a bigger dog (IE. the legal system or some other corrupt
organization) to stop them. I continue to be what most people would
consider a friend to these women, knowing that they will NEVER
understand. I do avoid them the best that is prudent (my time well
spent). Most NEVER figure it out. Some do!
Why don't you ask
her, "why don't you spend time with those that care for you,
already?" "Will your time be better spent doing this?"
She
may not figure this out too, however.
Source(s):
My experience.
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The first sentence in that
answer “Sounds like you need to be there for her in the
aftermath of this” , I didn't think of when I was struggling to
find an action for me to do, to help my best friend. This “Sounds
like...” was told to me by another great
friend
whom I was asking for advice (telling her about me and my best friend
problems). When my great
friend
told me this, I immediately knew that she was right! And it was an
immediate answer for her! While I want my best friend to NOT self
destruct, and I was looking for something that I could do to prevent
that self-destruction
my great friend could see that it was not likely and I could not.
I already know that when
someone STOPS looking for alternative explanations of the truth and
STARTS looking for something that fits their prejudice – THEY
WILL FIND THAT.
I believe that this is what
happens when most of my friends, buddies begin to move away from me
(or do things to chase me away). They know if they stay around me
that they will continue to learn – looking for alternative
explanations of the truth (they will learn something that they DON'T
want to know). I believe that this learning is what attracted them to
me in the first place.
Red wine is good for the heart
When someone finds something
that fits their prejudice, that is a thing that they have wanted to
find all along and, it is very easy to go toward. If their prejudice
is based upon fact then this is probably a good thing for them
to go toward. If their prejudice is based upon a lie (someone
told them or they told themselves) then it is probably NOT. This is
where the self-destruction starts, I believe.
By moving away from me and
chasing me away my daughter and my best friend are making it easy for
someone to replace them as the most important people to me! My great
friend is moving to the middle east so it is not extremely likely
that someone will become more important. I want them to remain number
1,2 and 3 with me (by again looking for alternative explanations of
the truth 1 and 2. 3 is already doing that)! Also, I look forward to
my great friend to move back from the middle east.
I'm NOT doing things to
attract, lead or ask anyone to become closer to me. I don't plan to
either. I like my number 1,2,3 etc. And I want them back, looking for
alternative explanations of the the truth!
So, when someone starts
looking for that which fits their prejudice, they will find it, and
if it is based upon a lie then it will probably be self-destructive!
The best that is possible after that is “be there for them in
the aftermath”. And hope that they come to you when that
happens.
(I believe that your best
friend is your bonding pair, life partner, couple person. If you are
straight, like me, then this person must be the opposite sex as you.
These 1,2, and 3 are women. My best friend that is a man is not
included in this article, although he is helping me greatly in my
endeavor. He is not doing things that distance us, either [as is 3,
she (although she is moving to the middle east) is remaining close to
me emotionally]!)
Thank you my great friend.
(a coincidence, your name is the same as the middle name of my best
friend – and you, alone, had the answer. And my daughter is who
talked to you when you did the things that are keeping me eating food
right now. hm.. I don't believe that there is such a thing as
coincidence, if god is in control, that is)
Peanuts is now my favorite comic strip. I used to hate it. hm... wonder why?
I also believe that there is no such thing as a coincidence.
Never believe/trust Lucy. Never believe/trust Snoopy.
, both are probably going to do something that I believe is very self
destructive to themselves. I believe that I have done all that I can
to prevent them from doing this. I gave an answer to this question at
yahoo answers: